[AMN819]

Okay, well I met this guy, "F", about 3 weeks ago. (unfortunately, I met him through a friend of mine, "A", that has a thing for me)...when I saw him, it was instant chemistry. I told "A" about it and to my surprise, he wasn't upset. I was hanging out with both of them a lot. "F" and I were getting pretty flirty. On Monday night, "F" and I were hanging out alone. We ended up sleeping together...(which is NOT like me.. am usually in a relationship for a couple of MONTHS before I go there). Now I am scared that I just lost complete respect and all hopes of a relationship. He has been calling everyday (several times/day) and asking me if I wanna go to a movie or to eat..but I am scared that I just messed it up..did I??

[SoleMate]

No...but let him know when you go out for the movie that you wish you hadn't moved so fast and you want to rewind a ways.

[AMN819]

The thing is...it had been 3 months for me and 6 months for him...our hormones HONESTLY got a hold of us. I already told him that I am NOT like that and that I wish it hadn't happened so soon. He agreed, but said it wasn't a regret....I just hope it's not ruined before it started!

[reasontosigh]

I'd say nothing's ruined here - you both sound like you're on the same page all around.

Having said that he agrees but doesn't regret I would consider quite a compliment!