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Questions???

Is there a time frame on rebound relationships and when they end?

Here's the deal real quick. Dated a lovely girl, and we both digged each other lots. During this time I knew she had just come out of a rather long term relationship, so I was a bit worried about being the rebound guy. I was... sorta. She broke up with me in a rather convoluted sorta generic way. She said she was still getting over from her previous long-term relationship which had ended about a month before we met. She also did it in a letter. I took it in stride and moved on rather quickly, but I knew she was digging me still. I know her sister from work, and would get the little "Carey told me to tell you hi." I do promotional events and she showed up at one once... it was pretty awkward, but the little glances were there from both of us. We have never been rude or talked badly about each other to our friends. I'm just not into 2nd chances... no one ever gave me one.

Today we talked for the first time. Really had a conversation, we're both moving to new apts. Talked about her letter, she said she knew it was really stupid and lame. Talked about some other people we've dated and dumped. She told me to call her and gave me her new cell #. We first got together in September it ended at the end of October.... it's the end of January now.

??Two Questions??

1. Is she throwing me hints.... does she want to try dating again?
- I wouldn't mind. Some casual dating would sound nice, I just ..... (next question)

2. Since she's dated a few more people (including myself) since the BIG breakup has she fully rebounded?
- I just don't want to be rebound man again. I do kinda like her. We have fun together (not hang from the chandelier fun, more like giggle, laugh about life fun.)


Any good answers or suggestions are greatly appreciated.