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Old 21st January 2004, 6:08 PM   #1
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Question Should i dump him?

my boyfriend has made out with my old best friend and others not while we were together but i chose him over her

when i found out,

hes flirted with girls while were together online telling them he wants to meet them and **** them but he suposably

never meet up with them,

hes yelled at me called me names, hurtful names,

he gets mad at me when i dont give him sex,

he always wants to leave me to skate because im "boring" to him and all i do is wine.

when i cry he calls me crybaby when im down he gets mad,

right now were all messed up becus i found out he fingerd some girl before we dated and he told me all they did was kiss,
he told me he caressed other girls now when he touches me i feel nothing,
wehn i was asking him i asked if they had sex he hessitated, i really think they did, he told me i was his first but i have huge doubts ,they were alone together and hes perverted.
he also says i exagerate.
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Old 21st January 2004, 6:12 PM   #2
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Yes, dump him. I can't believe you even have to ask.
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Old 21st January 2004, 6:15 PM   #3
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yes YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dump him.
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Old 21st January 2004, 6:24 PM   #4
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but he wont let me go he says he loves me, and alll that dont matter.
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Old 21st January 2004, 6:53 PM   #5
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He loves that you put up with his crap. Leave him.
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Old 21st January 2004, 6:55 PM   #6
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He says he loves you but he does not act lovingly. Forget the words. Drop him because of the actions. Of course he says it all doesn't matter - it's him having fun and he doesn't want to stop.
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