[shootingstar]

My ex-fiance and I recently talked about giving each other space(not talking for awhile). I say we both did, but it was more his decision than mine. Before we even started talking about this (we had broken up) he told me he really missed me. He has a very bad habit of not knowing what he wants and continually leaving me and coming back to me. I don't understand this because I always know how I feel about him. Anyway, during our space time, we are going to try to figure out if we really want to be with each other. I'm afraid that my answer will be diffrent from his and that I will just keep holding on to him while he is moving on. I know I should probably just give up on him, but I feel like I can't. He is a wonderful guy, he never cheated on me. He works all the time so I know. He gives me everything I want and treats me very well until we get into an arguement. Then he can't tell what he wants.

How do I tell which way to go? I know I will be fine without him. I know time will heal me, but I love him and I really feel like he loves me. I guess I just think he's scared sometimes. I am so confused and I just don't know what to do or how to handle space.

Any help will be SOOOOOOOO Appreciated!!!!

Thanks for listening

[Kriz]

The space thing. Ah space, the final frontier...

I would tell him the whole things makes you afraid of losing him, without clinging to him. I'd appreciate that.

[jmargel]

Umm before you go about the 'space' thing which really never solves any problems, have you asked him to join you in a counciling session for couples? That would do wonders compared to just seperating. Face your problems together, not run away from each other!