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Old 15th January 2004, 5:08 PM   #1
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Red face a Secret love

I have been falling for this guy whom I work with for a good few months...

Well, I finally got the nerve to tell him, in an im thee other nite.. And, he was like.. I feel the same way about you too.. :-)

The only thing is that both of us.. feel awkward when when at work, in that we don't want to provoke/say,etc. the wrong thing.. in front of our co-workers as well as against/towards each other.

Any suggestions of how to surpass this insanity of 'secret love?'

--- ooo yeah... and did I mention that him & I close every Friday or Saturday--- which makes things even worse.. because him nor I want to find ourselves in that mountain of trouble.. (read b/t the lines)
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Old 15th January 2004, 6:01 PM   #2
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hmmmmm....reading between the lines???? Might I ask just 'how much trouble" would you guys be in if WHO found out???? HAHAHA! You better be careful!
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Old 15th January 2004, 6:46 PM   #3
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Just keep your relationship outside the office and act businesslike when at work. I have a good friend that managed to do that for several years.
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Old 2nd February 2004, 1:35 AM   #4
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Hi, thanks for the advice.. things have been working out just fine.. so far..
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Old 2nd February 2004, 1:39 AM   #5
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all i can say is woohoo!!!
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