[flyswatter04]

I have always been wondering about this. How come its hard for some guys to get a girl, but then some guys have no problems getting one. for example: I really have not had a problem getting a girl however my friend has not really datied anyone (Hes even better looking than me). Why is that?

[ukgirl28]

Finding someone does take time, whether you try too hard and look everywhere, its all due to being at the right place at the right time with the right person...dont worry though - he'll find someone in the end, we all do

[Errol]

Personality? Public Persona? Fear of the opposite sex (girls can smell fear on a guy! )
BO? Too shy? Low self-confidence? Attitude? Up-tight? Sense of humor?

Physical looks have very little to do with attracting women. A hundred women can look at the same man for 10 minutes and when asked to close their eyes and describe him -- it will sound like they are each describing a different man.

Personality and the way a person carries themself in social situations is what most women notice first. Then they look at a guys ass!

Women want to laugh and be pampered, and they want to be allowed to pamper back and be able to make their guys laugh too. Its relaxing and it forms a bond. A relationship without laughter is doomed and laughter is a great way to start a relationship.

[Arabess]

Originally posted by Errol
Physical looks have very little to do with attracting women.

HOW TRUE!!! The image you see of yourself....and how you project it.....is what makes one attractive and sexy. It's not the actual composite makeup which most people are drawn to. It's a smile, a tilt of the head, how they walk, how they respond......

......I'm personally not into how a man's A$$ looks.....but some women probably are........LOL!


Nice to see you again FlySwatter. I hope things are going well for you.