i am sure u can talk to them about it, if they dont wanta speak about it there is always consuling or u can do what i do ignore it an go on, i am proud of me, i am proud of my choices so therefore what they try to do to run things i just smile n ignore it n go on with whatever it was that i was doing, talkin to them might help, there might be some sites too go to dogpile n type in overcontroling parents i am sure u will get alot of results....good luck,and remember if ur happy n content w ur life u shouldnt let others bother u