How do you get a girl whos shy and very reserved to open up? Theres this girl im interested in but shes very quiet and private around people and it's hard to talk to her. Any suggestions?

[dyermaker]

Talk about a common situation. Say things to get her to talk. When she does talk, listen.

[longlegzs80]

If your interested in her you should maybe ask for her number or instant message or something on those lines. I too am shy and if I am totally crunching on a guy I can't seem to talk to him face to face. Of course it never goes anywhere but anyways, she might open up better if you can talk to her on the phone or online.

I always thought it would be nice if a guy was interested to give you a compliment. I would like that. A compliment from a really decent guy I am crunching on. But fat chance won;t happen anytime soon. Anyways, don't let this shy girl slip away from you. Make the move and just ask her if she is interested if you can exchange numbers with her or if she is interested in going to the movies or something on those lines.

DON"T LET HER GET AWAY IF YOUR INTERESTED.