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Old 8th January 2004, 7:34 PM   #1
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Booty call or something more?

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I really dont understand my ex-boyfriend at all. You see here is the thing. We dated for about 8 months but we have known each other for about 7 years. The realationship was really good and this summer was really awesome. We got really close. Well there was this one big problem that we had. He cheated (JERK!) totally runined everything. well now he is dating the girl he cheated on me with. She is 15 and he is 18 almost 19. well i finally forgave him and we learned to become friends again. well sorta... the thing is sometimes we just run into one another or i will stop by to say hi to him and his family. Well whenever we do see each other he acts like we are still dating. He has kissed me a few times and hugs me and stuff like that. I have tried to stop him a few times but the feelings are still there. He is totally cheating on his girl friend now, i just dont get why he is like that with me. Could he just be physicaly attracted to me, and wanting a booty call or could it maybe be something more? Any help guys?
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Old 8th January 2004, 7:41 PM   #2
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Maybe he's not getting anything from his current girl and he's trying to get the best of both words.

Do yourself a favor and stay away from him.
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Old 9th January 2004, 4:41 AM   #3
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Unhappy He is how old?

You're how old? This guy likes them young and naive, and while you might still be young, you can no longer afford to be naive...you need to forget this guy A.S.A.P--he cannot handle a women his own age and has to go after vulnerable ones. That is disgusting. Another tip that I think will serve you well in the future--if they cheat on you, don't forgive them. Just a thought. Good luck and find a nice boy(am I sounding like somebody's mother?!)
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Old 9th January 2004, 6:36 AM   #4
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hes a loser, he has no respect for u nor for the other girl...stay away from this loser, if u show him u like him he just gonna keep playing with u...cos if he wanted u for real he be with u as u his gf right? plus would u wanna be such a losers gf?
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Old 9th January 2004, 10:49 AM   #5
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Given his age.....I would think it very safe to assume....only SEX is on his mind. You may be his best or easiest...but if he really cared for you.....YOU would be the girlfriend he is cheating on. It doesn't mean he will be like this for life.....but until he meets the right person....he probably will be. Don't be his sexual doormat....unless it's all you want from him.
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Old 10th January 2004, 9:59 AM   #6
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Quote:
Originally posted by UCFKevin
Maybe he's not getting anything from his current girl and he's trying to get the best of both words.

Do yourself a favor and stay away from him.
I'm with Kevin. He could possibly be getting none from his girlfriend. Believe me, I know what that's like. My ex wasn't giving me any, so I went and found my other ex, who would give me some.

If you care about yourself and your feelings, stay away!

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