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Old 6th January 2004, 7:46 PM   #1
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Should I move in with a girl, right after my girl broke up with me?

I just want to know what you all think.
My girl broke up with me recently.....We lived together and were both 24.
I have a good job and could afford a place on my own but, My friend
Gina has offered for me to come move in with her and be her Roomate.
I love Gina, she's one of My best friends, But I would NEVER try anything
with her. In fact She doesn't like me in that way, At least I don't think she does
And I don't have feelings for her romantically at all. But I'm wondering if it would be
a good move or not. I would really like to save up some money right now and
she's my only roomate option. My girl is leaving me becasue she says she needs space.
she says that she'll most likely want to get back together, but just needs some time alone
and time to figure things out and is going to move in with her Bestfriend(female).

I just don't want to screw up my chances with my ex, but at the same time I need to get
on with my life. You think it WOuld it be a bad move?
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Old 6th January 2004, 8:16 PM   #2
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yeah, get your own place
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Old 7th January 2004, 12:03 AM   #3
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No, Don't

If your friend Gina is ok with it, no problem as long as there will be no misunderstandings/hurt feelings.

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Old 7th January 2004, 8:52 PM   #4
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Don't Do It

Don't move in with another girl. Have you're own place.
If you really love your girl and want any sort of chance with her
I don't care how much a girl will say they're not jealous, That
will make your girl MAJOR Jealous and possibly ruin things.
And it's not like you can just move in and out of a place
with ease. Once you move in, you'll be stuck for a while.
Don't Do It.
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