Why would your ex think of you when hes making love to his wife and you havent been with him in years?Just chatted on the phone as friends.Thats flattering on your part but disrespectfull for his wifes part.

[Errol]

Strange things pop into guys heads (pun definitely intended!) during sex -- they don't always have control (again, pun definitely intended)

It's not an insult or flattering - it just is.

[brashgal]

Scary that he told you about it, what's up with that?

Why he told me I really honestly dont know.beats me

[SoleMate]

It's quite normal for the thought to occur, but it's not normal or respectful to his wife or to you to share it with anyone.

Hey, if I went around telling people the sexual thoughts I had about them, I would not have time to get my chores done. These things are meant to be kept inside our heads where they belong.

[Helpme2004]

i think its disrespectfull to his wife hes commited to her and thinking of another woman not right

[dyermaker]

He sounds like a prick--why did he tell you this?

why he tell u this?he thinks of you when having sex with the wife man thats cold to he spouse isnt it....he definatly is a piece of work thats for sure

[Arabess]

That would definantly be a case of TMI!

(too much information)