Ex fiance, now happily married, wants to meet to see if we still have passion as well

pinksunsets2004 · 28th December 2003, 1:28 AM

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What does it mean when your ex fiance tells you he wants to meet you after years of not seeing you and wants to see if the passion is still there?But down fall hes married which stated hes madly in love with her but why would he be calling his ex and wanting her to meet him and wants to see id the passion is still there.I have diffrent versions of passion which one could he mean?

crysiet · 28th December 2003, 1:48 AM

That is strange, but look at the clues to see what he wants. He called you. Obviously there must be a reason to it. He said he wanted to see if the passion was still there. Humm, that would seem like he like the physical part of your relationship. It would also seem like he wanted to get back together.

But wait! He's married and says hes in love with his wife. So that means he definitely not looking for reconciliation. It seems to me like hes wanting the relationship from his wife, and a purely physical affair with you. Thats just my opinion. I could be wrong, but it seems to fit.

What would you do, be that the case? You should talk to him to see whats going on.

Tony T · 28th December 2003, 2:12 AM

Why do you even need to ask us question like this? Tell him he needs to seek help from a psychologist as soon as possible and to not waste your time or try to suck you into his insanity. This guy is dangerous....married and in love with his wife yet wanting to get something going with you. Now aren't you glad he's your ex??? He's a scumbag.

Kat · 28th December 2003, 3:00 AM

Yes, why are you asking us?

He is a little boy who wants to have his cake and eat it too. Let him play mind games with someone else and run

reservoirdog1 · 28th December 2003, 2:21 PM

What an *********. He's married. And if you were to get involved with him, knowing that he's married, that would make you an ********* too. But I gather from your post that you're simply confused by his contact and taken off guard, rather than seriously considering getting involved with him, so you have every opportunity to NOT be an *********. He's taken -- whether he thinks he is or not. It's been years since you talked to him, so just tell him to piss off, and that you're not going to be an accomplice to his cheating.