If you did NOT fall in love 'at first sight', how did it happen? Did you notice yourself becoming fonder of the person in increments? Did you just all of a sudden realize you loved the person?
If you aware of it growing bit by bit, do you remember what it was that turned your affection into full-blown love? Was it a moment? An event? A series of circumstances? Was it that you checked one more quality off on your 'desirable qualities' list?
Let's hear the stories...