[sweetmind20]

hello,

a mutual friend of both me and my fiance said that i should see a note the two had exchanged so that i wouldn't be in the dark about my fiance' current feelings that he may be trying to keep private so he wouldn't hurt me... i know that men have the independence complex, but i wonder int his case if it is going to have an impact on our future... this is part of the note:


I am nervous ,who wouldn't be? After it sinks in you kind of think to yourself...oh no...no more going out, no more doing this, no more this...then you just settle down and just realize how much I Love her to death. Yes I am in love with her.


in your opinion, what does this mean? please help!

[CaterpillarGirl]

It means he loves you and is ready to get married. Relax. Everyone gets pre-wedding jitters, but it's obvious from the note that he is coping with them and that his love is winning out. Deep breath.

[sweetmind20]

thanks for your reassurance, caterpillar girl. we love each other very much, but there are times i fear that he will regret not having played the field.. we were each other's firsts. but thank you. i feel much better.