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Old 25th November 2003, 10:37 PM   #1
sweet_b_1
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Unhappy mixed thoughts About her Please read and give advice I do not know what to do

My ex apporach me toward the begining of the school year and she asked me if I wanted to go to the movies. And at the time I was over her. then me and her started back hanging around and I redeveloped feeling for her.

Then when this happen it like her feelings for me have changed or flipped. I ask her out she said she did not even want to go out with me and that she do not even like me like that. It like her feelings just changed.I would send her sweet emails and poems that I wrote myself and she would just say it sweet. I told her how I felt in a email and she sent me an aggresive email saying she do not want me. What should I do and I love sometime more than I love myself and I do not know what to do. Please give advice!!
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Old 26th November 2003, 12:00 AM   #2
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I have been in a similar situation and the best advice i can give is.. no matter how much it hurts, dont try to pursue her any more. it might not even be a good idea to hang out with her anymore.

doing this has a twofold effect, #1, it keeps the law out of you relationship, ( i.e. restraining orders, stalking charges, not saying it would go that far but it could), #2 it will give you time to get over your feelings for her again.

not having her around allows you to sort thru your feelings and get your heart in the right place. you need to move on and put her behind you.
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