[Firefly]

I've never had this problem before....i'm not sure how to fix it. Here's a quick run down of what's going on...I met a guy last month and we had an instant connection. We seem perfect for each other in every way, and we get along great! The problem is that we never really had that time of hot passion and romance...it went straight from us first meeting to that comfortable stage you usually get after you've been together for years. I am divorced with two kids (5yrs & 7 months) which may play a part in it. We just want to have that passion...any ideas??? (we have had SHORT moments of that only a few times when we are alone) One more thing i have to add is that it's really hard for us to find alone time with out my kids. Anyway...thanks for any suggestions!!!