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Coping Learning to deal with one's emotions and loss.

Old 7th November 2003, 3:23 AM   #1
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Is there anything thats really bugging you emmotionally that you want to get out? take a hit at this vent thread...., it's okay you don't have to worry about breaking your hand or anything else. just express what you feel like doing you'll realize it feels a little better getting it out there. Maybe we can all help fix the hate??
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Old 12th November 2003, 12:29 AM   #2
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this girl and i went out for something like 9 1/2 months.. i felt like the happiest guy alive.. but towards the end she basically stopped calling as much and just didn't pay attention to me. originally she wanted to hang out and go on dates whenever we got the opportunity, but after a while she didn't want to see me as much.. i asked why and was accused of being over-protective. there were so many things that she did that i absolutely hated.. but i seriously thought she was the love of my life and she was the girl for me. friends told me that i needed to get rid of her and move on but i couldn't. it's been 3 months since we broke up and we still talk almost every day. i've been trying to get back together with her and she says that she still wants us to be together but she'll say that and the next day she'll change her mind and tell me how she likes some other guy. it's really bringing me down and i know that i need to get over her but i don't want our relationship to be over. it got so bad the other night when we were talking after hanging out that i walked out and hit my truck and went home.. it was like i hit rock bottom. i'm sick of feeling like crap all the time and seeing her with other guys.

what do you guys think... would it be better if we weren't friends anymore or should i keep trying? i gotta get over this.. it's killing me.
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Old 12th November 2003, 12:39 AM   #3
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Nope

Hell no, you shouldn't keep trying, especially with her playing with your feelings! This girl is bad news, so you need to leave her alone and move on.

Don't let her bring you down. Keep your head up and find someone else.
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Old 12th November 2003, 10:32 PM   #4
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thanks.. i appreciate it.

i'm gonna stay away from her.. i guess it's better this way. i'm still mad at myself for wasting time on her.. it seemed like it was worth it at the time but it wasn't. i still really miss her though.. sometimes i feel like i gave everything i had to her and now that she's gone i feel empty.. i'm sure some of you know how it is. anyway.. thanks again.. i'm starting to feel better.
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