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Old 29th October 2003, 8:27 AM   #1
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Take it...or leave it?

(I apologize in advance if this message is long or I ramble.I just want to get everything out for people to understand
So there's this guy at school that I've been interested in for about a month. I've talked to him, briefly, only once. But everytime we see each other, the eye contact is so instense. I've never felt anything like it before.
The bad thing is, I heard a rumour that he has a couple of girlfriends. Then I heard from someone else that he doesn't.
I was out last week, and I was dancing with my g/f's. He was also there, dancing with another girl, but my friend noticed that he remained quite close to our group, staring,and everytime the girl with him tried to get close, he pushed her away.
What does this all mean? Does it sound like he is attracted to me or was he trying to make me jealous? Should I just approach him on my own? Or should I listen to the heresay and forget about him? THANKS!
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Old 29th October 2003, 10:47 AM   #2
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Well I wouldn't really listen to he/she said, I would take what I hear into consideration but not judge him on it because you don't know him. I think your best bet is to try and have a casual conversation with him, find a reason to approach him and just talk to him but do not let him know your interested/attracted to him until you get a feel for his personality.

You guys go to school together I'm sure you can come up with some reason to approach him. However, if you cannot approach him ask around and see if you can get some realiable info on his status, maybe a freind of a friend of his or something. If he is a player you don't want to get involved with him, still I say don't judge him until you your self have spoken to him. Again, you can approach him your self.

Sounds like he may be attracted to you, next time you get eye contact with him call him over and talk to him. I don't think he will mind.
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