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Nice guy in college class seems interested somehow
Ok. I'm 22, a senior in college. In one class I sit next to this guy who is probably 21, 22. The 2 girls in front of me always turn around and flirt with him, and basically I've noticed they are likely more than just a smidgen interested.
Well, this guy is really cool and seems friendly. When I speak to him, he is very receptive, friendly and kind. I took an extra handout for him when he missed class last week, and when I gave it to him he seemed quite grateful and even said, "Wow, thanks so much, I love you!" I was like, oh well, I just figured I should....
Well today one of those two interested ladies turned around and started provocatively speaking with him. He seemed a little uncomfortable and dare I say, not very interested or at least a little turned off by her forwardness. So...she basically asked him to do something, and I think he agreed.
Now here's the deal. I'm starting to have a crush on him, and now that I know he's single (agreeing to hang with that girl), I kind of want to make a move. This class is discussion-based, and in the times I've shared something he always turns to watch me speak. I've made it clear that I am shy. And I think he can tell I'm a good girl, someone who is friendly and kind. SO.... should I ask him to study or do something together? I wonder if his "signs" of potential interest are all in my head. And is this a fair move in the battleground of dating, even though I know how interested that girl is and that she is pursuing him already??? If he SEEMS interested, should I try talking to him a little more and see if he might make a move? I really don't want to scare him away.
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