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Old 9th October 2003, 7:37 PM   #1
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EX at the wedding

I recently got engaged to my fiance. Our relationship is perfect, I have never been this happy. The only porblem I have is that she stills talks to her exes and wants to invite them to our wedding and it really bothers me. I have talked to her about it and she says they are just friends and the deserve to be there, and that i have nothing to worry about. what should i do?
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Old 9th October 2003, 8:00 PM   #2
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Dont worry about it ,she already said she'll marry you.She just wants her friends there to see her wedding
Unless he stands and has something to say at the time the minister says"if any one don't agree why these two should be married speak now"
Beat his ass.LOL
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Old 9th October 2003, 8:11 PM   #3
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Thanks for the reply

I guess I am a jealous person and don't want those guys there. How should i get over that?
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Old 10th October 2003, 2:45 PM   #4
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You should be reassured that they are at your wedding. This is an opportunity for her to show everyone from her past and present that YOU are the man she loves. If any of these exes truly harbor any feelings for her anymore, they will probably not want to attend, anyway. If she still has romantic feelings for them, she most likely would feel awkward with them present. That she invited them suggests you have nothing to fear from their presence.
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