[tackleboxteddybear]

Y are women so complexed for me to understand?

Ok a while ago I was posting about this gal I liked & she just wanted to be friends though she threw all sorts of wierd signals like she compairs her current BF to me for some wierd reason & also is upset with herself for not talkin to me that often.


I got over it & made dew with the hole friends thing & we still speak to this day.

Then last week I go to blockbustr video & see an ol exGF's friend from the better part of a decade ago.We talked for a good 25 minutes & she said she wanted to go out & get drunk or for a drink with my friend & I sometime.

Later that week she let me borrow 2fast2furious before it hit store shelves for free.SHe said since shes giving me the movie I have to give her my nimber.So I though hey she might be intrested in me.That night I call her & she askes me if I want to go with her & her friend to a haunted house but the next day she gets sick & cancels out.
its been a week since & she hasnt called me yet but ive called her about 4 or 5 times.Weve had a few good conversations I made her laugh alot then there have been sometimes she never called back & every time she said she would she didnt.I understand that shes a busy gal with school work & a kid but am confused at this.

Then I hung out with my buddys gal & her friene & I have mixed feelings about her friend because my lil brothers been with her intimately but screwed her over with the one night stand thing.She(Being my buddys GF's friend) was awfully flirtasious in a sense that while playing pool she tried messing me up buy stickin the end of the pool stick on my bumcrack whcih I felt violated by by the way.neat gal & all but I feel bad bout my bro doing that to her.

What am I to do?
& Im not a playa which gals have told me I should try to be for some reason.I just see that one might not be intrested & I need to open my options.I havent been in a relationship in 3 years nor have I been intimate with a woman in that amount of time.

[TremblingBluStar]

Wow!

How old is his girl exactly?

It sounds to me like, as you said, she's interested in you. However, you also said she has a bf. This may be causing some hesitation on her part. Another possibility is she's waiting for you to persue her. I've noticed that quite a few women will make their initial interest known, but then refuse to take things any further if the guy doesn't make a move.

[tackleboxteddybear]

I was talkin about his GF's friend who was doin this.So i guess I wrote it out wrong he & his gal are having a second child & her friend was the one doin all this.her friend just tunred 21 & im 23

[Curt]

Beware as well, that EVEN if she does show additional interest, you may get in a situation where she would use you as an emotional adjunct? to another current relationship, sticking you in the "friends" category again. It happens

AND...

You would find, my friend, that THAT would suck big time.

Curt

[tackleboxteddybear]

Ive had that with the women ive been most intrested in all my life.It hurts so deeply its incomprehnsive.But I know tolerance all to well.

so outa the 3 which one should I hit for.

(& the last one is not my friends galfriend its her friend)

[tackleboxteddybear]

I called her today after not callin her in 2 days cause she shoullda called me.But no she didnt.

left a message "hey pretty lady this is ******* give me a call"

she didnt call back.

that means no more callin her for me should it not.

girls are truely stupid they try to self proclaim as of being the fairer sex but cant make up their minds.

sorry I pass this type of judgement but in my opinion & the gals I talk to literally find thins judgement to be true.


If any lady out there would like an explanation for this comment I would be much obliged.But I speak with the heart & not with the players metality of going out for a one night stand & leaving a silly gal with the thought i might call cause I dont do that.

though I might start to try with all the BS i have to go thru.

((Im not being derogitory any gal out ther can understand my statement I know cause the gals I kno tell me this all the time how their coniveded((((MISPELL)0)))

[subtitled]

well, from my perspective, leaving that sort of message could be kind of intimidating....if she isn't 100% about how she feels yet.

Also, if you enjoy making generalised statements like "girls are truly stupid" then i'm not surprised she didn't call...

maybe your attitude is attracting the wrong women??

[BlockHead]

Curt
Beware as well, that EVEN if she does show additional interest, you may get in a situation where she would use you as an emotional adjunct? to another current relationship, sticking you in the "friends" category again. It happens

I learned from my mistakes.

tackleboxteddybear
I called her today after not callin her in 2 days cause she shoullda called me.But no she didnt.

left a message "hey pretty lady this is ******* give me a call"

she didnt call back.

Maybe you are the backup boyfriend, or maybe it is a sick joke.

tackleboxteddybear
girls are truely stupid they try to self proclaim as of being the fairer sex but cant make up their minds.

I can understand the frustration. I like to think that they don’t know who they are or what they want. Maybe you should focus on women and not on girls.

tackleboxteddybear
though I might start to try with all the BS i have to go thru.

I had my fair share.

subtitled
maybe your attitude is attracting the wrong women??

How does a guy repel the wrong women? Pill? Collar? Spray?

[tackleboxteddybear]

were kinda outa line I dont generally say those things but after a bit of tequila the overly opinionated side tends to come out.as u can see with the mispellings.

My point was being that women "SAY" that they want a nice guy whose romantic & does all the right things & likes to cuddle.


As soon as that guy pops in to the picture where does he go.He goes to the friends list as well as the emotional crutch.There may be nice gals like me as of being the nice guy but they tend to go with their flock.

I told my mother on the phone in a recent conversation about these gals & she actually suggested i get a Blo up daoll.LMFAO

I think Im coming to the conclusion when ppl say ull find a someone someday it just means there is absolutly no chance ull ever procreate.

& I only really display this side of me somettimes near to never.It saddens me to say that promise is just a pretty piece of goldplated BS.

Also when & If my music takes off which is sounding decent & Very nice I could have many women.But thats not what I want.I dont want a woman to want me for my stature or grade in society.Like gals that are attracted to guys with bikes when I start building them & riding ones that I built.I dont want her to see the hog & be like "Thats A man".

My point being is that women are supposed to be understanding loving caring & compashionate are they not.But this is a fasaud(mispell).Women are to materialistic & cought up with stature & astetics.

Damnit I think I might have to join mensa to find my superwoman.

[BlockHead]

tackleboxteddybear
As soon as that guy pops in to the picture where does he go.He goes to the friends list as well as the emotional crutch.There may be nice gals like me as of being the nice guy but they tend to go with their flock.

I think you are going after the wrong women. They are probably looking for top notch DNA. Don’t waste your time.

tackleboxteddybear
I think Im coming to the conclusion when ppl say ull find a someone someday it just means there is absolutly no chance ull ever procreate.

I believe that there is more to life than hooking up and procreating. You should put more energy in your own long-term goals rather than wasting it on a few girls. Let’s just say that I’ve been in this situation even longer than you.

tackleboxteddybear
My point being is that women are supposed to be understanding loving caring & compashionate are they not.But this is a fasaud(mispell).Women are to materialistic & cought up with stature & astetics.

I think that applies to the majority of men and women.

tackleboxteddybear
Damnit I think I might have to join mensa to find my superwoman.

There seem to be a lot of inflated egos there.