[calithin83]

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My boyfriend of 2 years and 8 months broke up with me a month ago, i still see him in class Tues and Thurs..which makes it hard, i constantly think about him but he just ignoresme, he blocks me from aim, he doesnt reply to my emails and he just pretends that what we had was not real..I dont get it..i cant get over him, ive made friends, gone out with guys, and got busy but i still have him in my mind, whats hard is havign to see him in class...i dont know how to act or be anymore..when i see him..

everyone tells me to GET OVER IT..but its easier said then done especially when we SHARed so much together and it really felt great being together..i know he took me for granted and he told me i wasnt a challenge anymore...

I need some advice..cos im busy and stuff but even when im busy i think of him...i miss him even though i know hes a jerk and i really dont want him back so i dont know why i keep thinking about him.....

Help...or soemthing..some psychic told me he was my soul mate but i think she LIED!!!!!!!!

[Tony T]

It's not up to your psychic to determine your soulmate, that's up to you. Relying on psychics for anything other than entertainment is a dangerous thing to do.

Right now, your ex is in just as much pain as you are and he's trying to move on. He has cut you off, not to be cruel, but because he knows the only way he can heal and move on is to cease contact with you. You should have respect for that and go out of your way to avoid seeing his name online or anywhere else. Avoid him in class and just don't look at him. Contrary to anything you have been told in the past, you have to be very tough sometimes to get through this jungle of love.

You will find your soulmate in good time but that process will be severely strained if you depend on psychics or others. Time will heal your wounds from this relationship and one day you will find that special person who will once again make you feel very special and secure over the long term.

Good luck!

[moimeme]

just pretends that what we had was not real

The litmus test for whether it was 'real' is that it lasts. Unfortunately, it may not be 'real' but it may feel 'real' and every one of us has been deceived by their similarity more than once. Try as we might, in the midst of it, it can be very difficult to be objective about whether it's real or not. However, if it doesn't have longevity and staying power, it was not real. It was a reasonable facsimile is all. All you can do is move on.