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Old 24th August 2003, 2:41 PM   #1
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Unhappy My Boyfriend Thinks Im Fat!

MY BOYFRIEND THINKS IM FAT and im a size 3 in juniors! And im 5 foot 6. I also have a size C cup. I'm not grossly skinny, i have curves but my boyfriend is being really weird about my apperance and he said i should go on a diet! What should i do.





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Old 24th August 2003, 3:12 PM   #2
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Dump him. He's putting you down because he's insecure about himself.
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Old 24th August 2003, 3:21 PM   #3
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Wow....size 3 and a C cup at age 15?
Sounds like a pretty smokin bod to me. I guarantee there are guys your age that would appreciate your figure QUITE a bit. I would have killed to have a girl that hot just LOOK at me when I was 15.

This dude is a tool.
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Old 24th August 2003, 4:36 PM   #4
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I think someone who is 5'6" and size 3 is very skinny! And furthermore, it's amazing that you're a C cup on that body. If you're telling the truth, if anything, you probably need to gain a little weight. Just my opinion.

And don't let any guy tell you that you're fat - EVER! Dump him.
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Old 24th August 2003, 7:11 PM   #5
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frankly, he sounds like a jackass, and definitely not worthy of your time or attention. If he doesn't like the way you look, tell him to either, get used to it or get lost. I'm not sure I'd let a teenage boy (or any man without an MD after his name) tell that my weight is not what it should be!
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Old 25th August 2003, 12:41 AM   #6
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Thanks for advice, I am thinking now i will dump him, it does make a whole lot of sense.




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P.S. Ryan i'm 17
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Old 25th August 2003, 12:48 AM   #7
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P.S. Ryan i'm 17
My apologies....I got you confused with another teen poster.

My prior comments still hold true. You're beating most women MY age for figure. Definitely don't shrink. Women are meant to have some bust and hips.
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Old 25th August 2003, 12:50 AM   #8
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Lol thx!



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Old 15th September 2003, 5:05 PM   #9
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well.....i have just one question for Mr. Rude. If he thought you were so hefty...then why did he ask you out in the first place?
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Old 15th September 2003, 5:21 PM   #10
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When you dump him tell him he only thinks your fat because his penis is smaller than your little toe and he's jealous!

The others are right. He sounds like a real jerk.
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Old 15th September 2003, 6:18 PM   #11
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I went out with a guy for over two years before he started making the "fat comments", and I was the one that was supporting his fat and lazy ass, and I got so fed up and hurt that I thought this has got to stop.

I asked him one day what he weighed and he said 150 pounds.

Then when he brought up the fat comments, I said I am going to lose weight today, and he said great, I said I am going to lose 150 pounds right now, and he said great.

I said now get you lazy ass out of my house, and I proceeded to throw his **** out the door.

I have never once regretted this....

Last time I noticed, I was pretty small compared to his newest and much more "fatter" conquest...

Ditch his ass and not soon enough
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Old 22nd December 2003, 7:36 PM   #12
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Unhappy im down

Ok i am thinking about breaking up with my man heres why he siad im fat and when im around him i feel fat heres why he 5'4 and weights about 140 pounds and he athletic plays soccer his body is nice
im my side im about 5'6 i weight 135 pounds and im in weight tranning i work out every day when im around him i feel really big and stupid and hes just so tiny his legs are even smaller then mine its wierd but i really hurt my feeling and really made me chabge my mine about him he said im fat on the phone it made me feel so terribal
i think i should brake it off!
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Old 22nd December 2003, 7:51 PM   #13
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This is an old thread, but whatever.

Yes, definitely break it off. A man who calls a woman fat, besides not being that intelligent, is basically saying a huge, "I don't care about you." The longer you stay with him, the more insecure you will become.
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Old 14th May 2004, 12:33 PM   #14
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Screw him. You are an awsome weight and could get someone who appreciates you mega fast.
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Old 13th July 2004, 12:10 PM   #15
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I used to be your size and my BF said was too skinny! He ( and my mom) actually want me to get fat, and thsy are fattening me up! I don't think all guys want a really fat GF like mine does, but I do think they like girls to be a little chubby and plump.
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