[confused&hurt]

i posted on here a few weeks ago about me cheating on my partner with my friends partner...well i have been trying to forget about it and move on but just cant seem to get him out of my mind.
the past few two times ive been out at the pub hes been there and each time has told me he wanted us to carry on behind our partners backs and that he regrets ending things as i made him happy,but he only speaks to me when hes drunk, do you think hes just saying these things? or does he really mean them? i know what i was doing and what i want to do is wrong but i cant help how i feel he just makes me feel special and when we are together treats me good and compliments me which i never get from my partner.

I was with him this saturday but our partners were there so couldnt really speak properly but he hetold me he finished things as he thought someone was going to find out and asked if we could go back to how we were, i texted him saying he shouldnt say things unless he means it as it isnt fair on me.Since then we have exchanged a few texts but nothing about what he said. I feel like texting him and telling him to stay away and not to say things like that anymore as i think i do have feelings for him and it just hurts when he says it and doesnt mean it.

Should i text? what do i say if i do? or should i just try and get over him.

I thought i was over him but everytime i see him i realise im not

[justforfun]

So when he's sober he admits he made a mistake. When he's drunk he says he wants to carry on.

I'd forget it and focus on your own relationship. Work out why you felt the need to do that. Communicate with your partner and let him know what you need. Or decide that you want to find out what you need with someone else.

But, IMO, you will be making a HUGE mistake if you carry on this with the other guy. JMO

[boogieboy]

If youre not happy with your partner, be an adult and have the guts to let him go so he can find a faithful person that is into him.

You let him go, then you can do whatever you want with whoever you want a clear concience. BTW the guy your fooling around with wont leave his girl for you.