[icemann12]

there is a girl i work with and she started a little while ago, i started talkin to her and added her on facebook, i messaged her tonight sayin whats goin on, heres my number text me etc etc, shortly thereafter i got a text and we started talkin, then she said come over, but i got another saying actually the place is about to close so we will hang later in the week, i said ok, how about wednesday after work? and she said ill think about it .. so i said ok, hopefully we do :x.

now im not workin with her again till wednesday. where should i go from here to help get this going or anything, maybe ill text her tonight and ask how her day off was or something? im not that sure i just want some good help on how to handle this, thanks

[SoulSearch_CO]

She already said she'd think about it. Just wait until you see her on Wednesday at work and ask her about it face to face.

[icemann12]

i shouldnt like send her a text later on today and say like how was your day off or anything..?

[Yukikazi]

No.. just wait. This crap is like a tennis game... you served the ball to her by asking her for Wednesday.. she said she would think about it.. she has neither volleyed the ball back to you nor let it go out of bounds... just wait and see what she does. If she flakes on you.. that's game.. so you ask her for a second date.. that's set.. if she flakes on you again.. that's match.. game over.. move on.

[icemann12]

UPDATE::: we hung out after work last night, me and her friends, it was a really good time and i really enjoyed hanging out with her, still going at 8am lol. we banged and cuddled and whatnot and it was all really good, i texted her after leaving sayin i had fun, wish i was still layin down with you, hope you do well at work, im looking forward to seeing you tomorrow. because i told her im goin out, and she seemed excited to want to come so her and her friends are tryin to leave work early instead of at like 1am.. she answered my text sayin she was really tired, she had a good time with me, and they'll do the best to get out of work early, so i said ok cool, hopefully they let you out if not we can meet up after, if i dont get a reply to that what should i do about handling tomorrow? wait till the morning and see how work went and everything? or what, i like the girl shes really cool and things are going really well so far.. but as always i get nervous/paranoid cause its how i roll haha. any good input is appreciated everyone! as always! let me know if you need more details or what your input is, thanks!

[icemann12]

is this not as exciting for you people as it is for me!?!! come on!

[BobSacamento]

You did read what you wrote right?

Not really on the edge of my seat here...

[icemann12]

yeah i know, i just didnt go out tonight, and when im home hangin out alone, i drone over and over things in my head, and paranoia likes to set in lol, but if i dont get a text or anything i guess the best way to go about it is text her tomorrow to see hown work was and if shes gonna be able to get early? havent gone for many girls, still learning...

[BobSacamento]

You need to relax and not look it as trying to stop the end of the world or something. You are supposed to be having fun, not having panic attacks.