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Old 6th November 2009, 6:55 AM   #1
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Bumped into the ex who dumped me, I texted her goodbye, she responded with this

Basically I bumped into my ex who I was with for 3 years. She treated me like Cr#p, dumped me etc. I loved her a great deal and asked to marry her, she turned me down. I bumped into her in the mall recently, we talked for a bit. She told me she had changed, it was clear to me she had not, we spoke about connecting up togeather. (She said she would be my friend only if we connected once a week, etc, basically all on her terms)
I went away thought about it and sent this text to her:
"It is clear to me you have not changed, you still justify your behavior and appear to have no remorse and no respect for me. Talk is cheap, its actions that count. You still seem like an angry person and your behavior is unacceptable and I no longer tolerate that in my life, the consequence of that is goodbye please don't contact me".
She then responded with this "Thankyou for sharing your life with me over the past 4 years and for all the time, energy and love you have put in our relationship. I will never forget you or regret our time together for there was goodness there and I discovered many valuable things because of it. I wish you love, peace, health, happiness love X." Now this person has to have the last say and win at any cost and she would change her story if that benefited her. Her actions over the last few years were the complete opposite of this text and she always spoke well but her actions never matched her words. Can anybody read between the lines and say what she said? It has upset me and am unsure how to take her response, thanks heaps::

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