As many of you saw in my previous post that got a huge amount of hits and replies, I did open up to my gf and told her she was becoming special to me. The original post you can see at:
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t208348/
Anyways I let things go. Yesterday she kinda brought things up again and we started talking again. My statement was simply this, "I know you have some issues in opening up and trusting people, but ya know if you ever do want to talk about things, I will listen."
The conversation grew and before we got off the phone she simply said to me. There are very few people who know everything about me and know why I have these insecurities about myself when it comes to people. I think that we should have this conversation. I do have issues with people, but I am working on that for myself, and I want you to know that everything you have done has been nothing short of perfect for the most part.
She thinks that whenever she gets things going well for her that something happens to screw things up....Is it self destructive I dont know....But she is now willing to talk to me and let me in now and I think I have set myself aside from the pack of people who have forced her to put up this wall...
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