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My new GF and the situation.
Me and my gf just become offical a few weeks ago. We hung out for the first time at the end of September of this year, so we have only known each other for a little over a month now.
Here is where I am confused, up until about last week when hanging out she treated me nicely. However in the past week the few times we hung out she started to seem distant, she claims she is stressed out and not feeling well which is ok but she is acting bitter toward me and I haven't done anything remotly close to make her act this way. An example is when we made plans to hang out Saturday she asked if I wanted to just hang out with just her or hang out with some other people as well. I said what do you want to do?, she replied with "don't turn this around on me" This is only one example but I feel like when talking to her I am walking on eggshells and its as if she doesn't care about the relationship as if I told her we are done she could care less. Another example is I have some hair on my chest and stomach, Im not a gorilla but there is some. When she rubbed her hand over it she was turned off then the next time we were together she said me and my friends were talking about chests with hair and we all agreed a shaved chest is better and more attractive. I know this may seem petty but it seems like any little thing that is wrong with me she points out. I have been nothing but super nice to this girl and treated her the way a girl should be treated. I have even talked about when we are going to have a long distance relationship she said she is ok with it. Which seems cool but she said she will only respond when I call her or email her she said she is not one to intiate these type of things. But she said she will respond when I do. I honestly don't know what I should do as far as staying with her. What do you guys think?
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