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Old 3rd November 2009, 10:13 PM   #1
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Venting about friends

I'll tell my story. I know most of us have had these types of issues.

When the breakup first happened, I vented a lot to one friend that I thought I could trust. She knew both of us but was more my friend. More of an acquaintance of the ex.

To make a long story short, this "friend" is apparently not speaking to me anymore, and is posting status updates with my ex's name in them, mentioning how great a time they had.

I feel so betrayed. I'm not going to confront the "friend", because I don't want to create drama. I deactivated FB.

But this betrayal has been a huge setback, plus the confirmation that my ex is having a blast without me. I'm so pissed, and anxiety is skyrocketing thinking of what they are saying about me, why the "friend" is not talking to me etc.

Just wanted to get this off my chest. I guess I trusted the wrong person. Please share your friend stories.

How do you get over the betrayal? Do the intense feelings just blow over eventually?
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