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Lord, somebody me!
Hi,
I'm in a bit of a pickle. I was just dumped after 6 years of what i thought was an awesome relationship. We had our ups and downs but nothing that ever threatened the relationship. We even took a 3 day vacation and had an amazing time together, just prior to the break. The next day she tells me she has feelings for someone who hangs around her work and that our relationship was in jeopardy. 2 days after that it was official and i was single. She went on a date with him and kept me in contact and up to date. After a month they are starting to stay at one anothers house and spend a lot of time together(however haven’t committed as a ‘couple’). On my end, she is starting to turn me off completly, no texts, no phone, nothing. It’s getting worse and worse. I am a muscian, so i wrote her a song, i’ve written letters, i have done everything; maybe im pushing to hard, hence the resistance? I’m living in a place im not from and making a lot of sacrafices just to be with her. I met her in college and stayed in this town the whole time waiting for things to slow down so that we could get married. Now i’m all alone and i’m waiting to see of things are going to pan out. She is no doubt the love of my life and im in a miserable heartache, i mean its BAD. Is is possible she is just seeking validation before we tied the knot, or am i in denial that she’s gone? Family and friends have advised me to move on and get out of dodge but my heart doesn’t want to give up. It’s evident that it doesn’t look good for me, but is there any hope? When we have had converstations prior to my cold turkey cut(as of this week), she has NOT been able to look me in the eye and say shes gone forever; and she still can't say it. She said she will inform me if the relationship becomes exclusive. She has told me to move on stricly on the premises of what she sees as my best interests, however, my best interests are waiting on this woman. She is amazing, despite the fact that she's cut my heart up pretty bad. While i dated some prior, im newly 24 years of age and was with her for 6 full years, all through college. We were eachothers first and only. The only information i have on the gentleman she is with is that he is to full 10 years older (33) and works close to her 40 mins away from where we live. It has been over a month and a half now, What’s the best thing for me to do? I've already tried dating, 'doing things for myself' ect ect ect..not working, only making things worse. Are there any women who know what she may be doing/ thinking? Should i contact to keep from being "out of sight, out of mind", or do i apply the "no contact" rule? I'll take any help, I appreciate anyone who has taken the time to read this. I am praying for a miracle. Clay M.
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