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I have been reading online about "how to get your ex back" and just about everything says to use the NC strategy and it has a good chance of working. After reading on this site for the past week or so, it doesn't seem like it is successful. I am planning on NC for about a month total (since the breakup) and then call him up. This is of course if he doesn't contact me first, which I seriously doubt he would do sooner than me.
I guess I have gotten discouraged after reading this forum whereas before, reading online aside from this site, I had a lot of hope.
I also wonder, why hasn't he uttered a word to me and doesn't he miss me and wonder if I am okay?
We had a very good relationship and this totally blindsided me. I think that he got freaked out and ran away (I was his first girlfriend, yet we are in our late 20's).