I want an asian bf ¬.¬

xMilliex · 28th October 2009, 12:32 AM

I'm a 20 yr old black girl... anyways... I was just wondering if it's possible for asians to be attracted to black girls?? (i mean like koreans, chinese and japanese)... cos a lot of black girls are attracted to asians, but they keep it a secret cos they're convinced that asians are repulsed by black people... which is 98.5% true because their idea of beauty and attractiveness is pale skin, blue eyes and blond hair... and slim ofcourse... anyways this may sound like a stereotype of view / comment but i know it's a fact because i've been to asia and have seen it for myself....

Anyway, back to my question... are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys? ... even if it's in secret please say... lol

CarrieT · 28th October 2009, 10:51 AM

I live in San Francisco so I think I see the most mixed couples possible and I have seen many African Americans with Asians.

So, yes.

I guess, depending on where you live, it might be more difficult to target your demographic, but if you Google "Asian dating" you will find a TON of related sites.

Peaceful Guy · 29th October 2009, 6:19 PM

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Originally Posted by xMilliex

.. are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys?

of course.

Template · 12th November 2009, 10:15 AM

Hell yes. Some of the most attractive females I've met in life were black women.

someone000 · 12th November 2009, 5:01 PM

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Originally Posted by xMilliex

I'm a 20 yr old black girl... anyways... I was just wondering if it's possible for asians to be attracted to black girls?? (i mean like koreans, chinese and japanese)... cos a lot of black girls are attracted to asians, but they keep it a secret cos they're convinced that asians are repulsed by black people... which is 98.5% true because their idea of beauty and attractiveness is pale skin, blue eyes and blond hair... and slim ofcourse... anyways this may sound like a stereotype of view / comment but i know it's a fact because i've been to asia and have seen it for myself....

Anyway, back to my question... are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys? ... even if it's in secret please say... lol

wow you are a lot like me!! I'm a black girl as well and i like asian guys a lot. I really hope its not true that they are repulsed by us though >_>
I dont live in asia but i have a lot of asian friends so i guess the stereo type doesnt go for everyone.

Pizzaman81 · 16th November 2009, 2:59 AM

What is it that you find interesting about "us?"

stillafool · 19th November 2009, 5:14 PM

Probably your beautiful skin, shiny hair and gorgeous smiles. Your big calves are also a turn on. Also asian men always look so clean and I love that. You also have good taste in clothing. Damn, why don't I have an asian guy?

angie2443 · 24th November 2009, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by stillafool

Probably your beautiful skin, shiny hair and gorgeous smiles. Your big calves are also a turn on. Also asian men always look so clean and I love that. You also have good taste in clothing. Damn, why don't I have an asian guy?

I agree, except for the calf thing. I've never noticed the big calves.

woopster638 · 25th November 2009, 3:48 PM

it really depends where you live.......but i live in a trinidad and as long as i remember,i always like black girls.

in fact all my relationships were with black girls.

and personally i like slim black girls with nice ass,but thats just me lol

Pizzaman81 · 30th November 2009, 6:22 PM

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Originally Posted by angie2443

I agree, except for the calf thing. I've never noticed the big calves.

if you want to look for big calves, go to China, look for ricksaw pullers or bicycle taxi guys....

selena_cat · 30th November 2009, 8:03 PM

I know a friend of mine whose a nice looking black guy who only dates Asian women,however,the problem he has is with their parents.Many of them,Asian parents that may not approve,but that shouldnt stopp you,good luck. Asian guys are cute

Pizzaman81 · 30th November 2009, 9:12 PM

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Originally Posted by selena_cat

I know a friend of mine whose a nice looking black guy who only dates Asian women,however,the problem he has is with their parents.Many of them,Asian parents that may not approve,but that shouldnt stopp you,good luck. Asian guys are cute

I actually find that lot of black families have good solid family values. Which is important to us Asians.

woopster638 · 1st December 2009, 1:34 AM

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Originally Posted by selena_cat

Asian guys are cute

Why most of girls find us just CUTE?.....we are not pets lol

yongyong · 7th December 2009, 2:54 PM

most asian guys will not date black girls unless a girl look like a beyonce (then she doesn't have to go for asian guy anyways)

Zoff · 8th December 2009, 6:06 PM

I think that a lot of Asian guys would have a big problem with their parents. It's racist but it's generally just not accepted in my experience.

Having said that I'm really surprised to see someone specifically chasing Asian men, the normally have a tough time on the dating scene when it comes to non Asian women.