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Hiya all, this is my first post so take it easy on me and please keep any discrimination or narrow minded responses to yourselves!

Right lol...here we go.

I am considering asking my girlfriend to marry me but personally think I am too young being almost 21. I am very mature for my age and my partner is a couple of years older than I am. I am a well traveled qualified professional and have had so many previous partners I cannot remember them all. (I am not bragging I feel this information is relevant as many relationships end because one or the other would like to see what else is out there)

I have been with my partner for around 3 and a half years now and lived with her for 2 and a half of those years, a year and half at my parents and a year in our own apartment.

I have recently finished university and have moved 120 miles away from my home town and partner for work.

When I found this job initially I did not want to ask her to move as her family are all down there and I had planned to live with my manager for a little while until I got on my feet financially.

I am now (2 months later) living in a house share where she would be able to move up to me if she found a job, she has asked me to look around for her and see what is available.

We have been in daily contact without fail and I have just spent almost 2 weeks back down there with her as I had some time off to graduate from University etc.

She says her worry is that I will find someone else up here or go off her because of the distance but I KNOW this is not going to happen.

She knows stuff about me that nobody else in the world knows, things I would have thought would end a relationship she has simply accepted readily.

One example of this is me being bisexual, how many females out there feel they could stay with a guy that had told them this?

I know I could spend the rest of my life with this woman and I am hoping that by proposing her anxieties about me meeting someone else or losing interest would be relieved and that she would actively seek to move to be with me.

I have been looking and would propose to her in the eiffel tower restaurant in paris sometime towards the end of november / beginning of december.


Does anyone agree and think I am too young or do you think I should go with what my heart is saying and trust that this girl is my soul mate?

I have always considered being engaged / married at such an age a sign of immaturity and fairly 'schoolboy' but I really do believe this would be a positive move considering my position and feelings.

Any guidance or opinion would be much appreciated,

Thanks in advance,

anonymous