Dating For 3 1/2 Years? Do We Getting Married Or Break Up..need Advice

superwomen

Hello- So I have been dating this guy for 3 1/2 years. It has been the best few years of my life. We really have a special relationship going. So here is my question to anyone out there.. when do you decide if we should go to the next level in a relationship (like being engaged or married ) or do we break up with each other. Here is my stand on the situation: I love this guy 100%, I see myself marrying him one day. I just want to make sure that we are going in that direction. I don't want to continue dating him and in 3 years from know he tells me he doesn't plan on marrying me.Is that wrong for me to think that way? Is it okay for me to want to know where we stand? Also, what happen if he can't answer these questions right know? If he says he can't commit to me right know what do I do? Do I break up with him..NEED ADVICE...Or do we work at this relationship. I honestly am not ready to give up what we have together. We have something special. Any advice would really help me out.. Thanks-