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Is this ok?
Im 21, im a virgin, and im ok with this. At school i was too shy, i no longer have any trace of that issue, but it kept me single at school. Im now third year university and i find the problem is im very 'picky' with girls i want to go out with, so that though i have many opportunities, i pass them up because im not attracted. Then i get people sayin "im young and should be dating every other day" - are they attracted to just every girl or do they settle for some reason? I think the 'notch in the bedpost' kinda guys either are sleeping with girls i wouldnt or know about this place where all the hot girls hang out :P.
There have only been a handful of girls ive been attracted to, and ive only dated one of them, a relationship i ended a year and a half ago- the rest i didnt date for a handful of circumstantial reasons, 2 because i was still too shy back then. My parents have said that being too picky will lead to me being lonely for a very long time. I dont really like being single, cuz im the kinda person who is happier in a relationship, but i cant bring myself to settle for a girl despite this. Is this a problem? If you have nay advice, i appreciate it.
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