[garagegal]

I just thought i would ask men and woman alike,

What moment did u realise you were in love?

I would love to hear everyones special moment.

The world seems full of gloom at the moment but im sure the answers will make me smile, and you too.

[Kat]

It sounds bad but I was drunk the first time I told my b/f I loved him.

We were best mates before we got together and within the space of two weeks we went from good mates to two people totally in love with each other. Everyone else saw it, and we were just two mates hanging out alot.

One night I was over and I ended up having a drink, so I couldn't drive (I am on my p's and have to be 0.0). I had stayed before and we had slept in teh same bed but nothing ever happened.

This night I just remember going to bed and we ended up very close to each other, because Hope(my daughter) took up alot of the bed. We just cuddled for hours, talking and he was rubbing his hand up and down my back and arm. It felt really nice and really comfy. My b/f is/was very shy and would never dream of over stepping the boundry. I ended up kissing him and I can still remember the moment, the smell and the taste of that kiss . Then we fell asleep in each others arms. From then on we have been together and I wouldn't have it any other way!


Ok it kinda doesn't follow on from the topic but I thought I would share anyway!

[HokeyReligions]

I don't remember - it just seems like its always been there. I think, and this may sound silly, but he realized that we were meant to spend the rest of our lives together the first time he got sick and I stayed with him, then I cought the bug and he stayed with me. I guess if you can stand watching each other throw up, a future together is possible.

I knew the day I met him that he was the one I would marry. I don't know why - there weren't fireworks or anything like that -- we just talked, but it felt right. Two years later we were married. We've been together over 20 years now.

[Tony T]

YOU ASK: "What moment did u realise you were in love?"

I think it happened the very second I looked down and saw my reflection in the pond.

[quankanne]

I remember the minute I noticed him -- he was staying at the hotel i worked at, and I ran into him at the bar. I said something to him, then noticed those pretty blue eyes. He doesn't remember this, but I'd told him that if he ever wanted to make babies, I'd be happy to help!

I guess we'd known each other a couple of months (as friends) and it hit me, I just knew he was the one. Because here was the guy I felt most comfortable with, who it felt so to be natural with (something to do with the friendship aspect, like Kat talks about in her post). And the idea of growing old together seemed so real, not a daydream, like with the other guys I'd been "in love" with. Of course, it took awhile for him to realize that he felt the same about me, but this summer we celebrate 11 years of marriage.

Hokey's got a very good point -- it says something about a relationship when the other person isn't worried or scared or grossed out to be with you when you aren't at your best, but in fact WANTS to be there because he's concerned ....