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Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people.
So what do you think of my chances?
Last edited by pelleblue; 1st August 2009 at 1:57 PM..
Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people.
Overconfidence can equate to cockiness. That said, why do you think you're not attractive if you've already been reminded you're in the top 75% percentile?
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Go out and talk to women in the lounges, show them your intelligence, show them youre interesting, and they will let you know whether or not you are attractive.
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Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people.
So what do you think of my chances?
Not the best sales pitch.
Post a picture.
Okay, now what does your family say about your Negative Traits? And what have past g/f's complained about? -- that's what I want to know... heh heh
*sees a long line of fleeing females weirded out by such a comment*
The best physician is optimism...
Seriously I had perfect attendance from 1st grade through 7 years of college...Friends call me Mr. Amazing. I don't take aspiri or any drugs whatsoever and I don't even so much as get headaches.... Ahh, hell. You guys will just think I'm full of s** and a big fat joke. The fact is I've met several people like me. Several clients. Best friends. What is normal anyway? I think normal is healthy, happy, horny, and Interested. If there's anything I think kills people the most is losing interest in things. I have insatiable Curiosity, Passion, and Zeal. The purpose in life is to plan for the future.
Cheers, y'all
Okay, now what does your family say about your Negative Traits? And what have past g/f's complained about? -- that's what I want to know... heh heh
Three of my girlfriends have asked me to marry them. I wasn't ready. I don't like to break hearts. It hurts me just as much. Still does.My family: Weel my brother's a doctor, two other brothers are self-employed, and my suster works for a hospital in Scotland. Last I asked, my family thiks my bigest negative trait is not keeping up with them :-D
Gee, with the thrashing I'm getting on this thread so far, I think posting my picture is akin to asking for feathers on the tar. I'll save you the fun and keep the small level of dignity I have on my face in private. Being blunt (even in confidence) is really not recommended. Why did I come to this website?
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