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Old 4th July 2009, 4:39 AM   #1
Nemoralis
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Another "is he gay" thread

Something someone else said got me to thinking about my guy. We've been dating for about 3 months now and it's like nothing I've ever experienced before. I've been spending a lot of time trying to figure everything out. You hear stories all the time about wives who have been married for 20 something years only to one day find out their spouse was gay the whole time. So here are the facts about my guy:

- He's VERY attractive
- Somewhat sensitive (expresses his emotions well, tells me how much cares) but still logical
- He dresses well, likes to shop. Was raised by well-to-do family with lots of money and sort of spoiled, so this may have something to do with it. He has 10 times more shoes than I do.
- He's been going to the same gay club for about 3 years now. The DJ is his neighbor and ALL his friends are gay. He likes the techno music they play. (I also go to this club every weekend, even before we met).
- His best friends treat him like their straight buddy and I never pick up on it being anything more than that. He goes to all the high class gay parties, gets to bang all the straight chicks who go to them.
- He is not afraid to go with me to the club, and show me off to his friends. I think that if he were really gay he'd keep us separate.
- He's very sexual, loves sex and appears to love women. Has been with about 30 girls.
- There are a few guys that like him so much that they text him constantly, and he sort of leads them on (texting "hey baby" or whatever). However he never hides this from me and shows me what he says. We just laugh about it.

Anyway. There are the facts. Is he metro or gay?
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