[Browneyezz]

Hello all..

I am new here. I could really use some advice on my cheating boyfriend. Here's my situation. I met my b/f in 2007. We are in the "alternative" lifestyle which we have an open relationship. Yes, we do have rules and guidelines in our relationship. He moved here in a small town in PA from a big city in VA in 2007 when our daughter was born. It was quite an adjustment for him.

Lately, he has been sneaky w/ his phone calls and is texting excessively to another female not in the lifestyle. After reading his texts without his knowledge I found out that he had slept w/ this woman. After confronting him on his texting he denies sleeping w/ her. He still texts and calls her.

Now my insecurities are in full force and I want to check up on his cell phone logs and texts all the time which is driving me crazy. I need some advice on how to get over this mess and move on. I do want to try to salvage our relationship for our daughter sake. Any suggestions are appreciated.

Thanks!

Frustrated in PA