[fancybird]

I met my last boyfriend on line (dated for 6 weeks). We broke up 3 weeks ago.

Is it cool for me to go back on line?

Should I give him a 'heads up" warning that I'm returning to the site we met at?

Any feedback is much appreciated.

Thanks

[Tony T]

If the two of you broke up, you don't owe him any word at all on your plans to do anything. The only thing you need to make sure of is that you don't respond to any of his ads and vice versa.

Once there's a break-up, all obligations one to another are completely voided...except, of course, continuing the usual kindnesses and courtesies afforded fellow human beings. But no need to tell him you're putting yourself back into the dating scene.

[fancybird]

Thanks Tony.