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I cant see myself with 90% of the girls i meet..am i too picky?
Girls i have met in college and high school...dont appeal to me. Maybe only about 10% of them. Most of the girls in college just annoy me. They are loud, only like to drink and just seem like strait bitchs, like they are the queen. Now i am not saying all girls are like this, but most i have met are and i cant stand it and that is one reason now why i like being single so much.
Am i too picky? or should i be picky becasue its my life and i want the right girl?
Where are you meeting these girls? Perhaps it's time to find a new place to meet girls?
Are there student groups that you may be interested in looking at? If you meet a girl there, then you at least have one thing in common. You can just proceed from that point.
And no, I don't think you're too picky. In fact you have standards and you are not really willing to compromise them for perceived happiness. That's commendable.
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I think it's fine, since 99% of the women out there will dismiss you anyhow.
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I know sometimes when I see pretty girls seeking attention or being loud, I automatically write them off as annoying or bitches..but that's not really fair ya know?
I think you may be viewing some of the girls with prejudices?
A vast majority of younger woman tend to need a large amount of attention to feel good about themselves, and I can tell you from living in a dorm...stay away if loud, drunk, attention seeking girls annoy you, that's about 85%-95% of them.
I moved out of the dorms for that exact reason.
I got stuck with a really prissy girl who said 'o.m.g. and like' every 5 second and had the IQ of a dead squirrel.
You might just want to wait if your expecting more...
I have still yet to meet a girl I actually like as a friend, if you find one that loves video games, cars and sports as much as I do. let me know, ha ha.
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A vast majority of younger woman tend to need a large amount of attention to feel good about themselves, and I can tell you from living in a dorm...stay away if loud, drunk, attention seeking girls annoy you, that's about 85%-95% of them.
I moved out of the dorms for that exact reason.
I got stuck with a really prissy girl who said 'o.m.g. and like' every 5 second and had the IQ of a dead squirrel.
You might just want to wait if your expecting more...
I have still yet to meet a girl I actually like as a friend, if you find one that loves video games, cars and sports as much as I do. let me know, ha ha.
I never have anything in commen with these girls in school. I am big into sports and cars but girls that i know seem to just...care about things such as looks where i could care less what you look like really.
I do plan on waiting a while becase girls that are 20 and below..just dont appeal to me. Girls in the 23+ range do however.
I never have anything in commen with these girls in school. I am big into sports and cars but girls that i know seem to just...care about things such as looks where i could care less what you look like really.
Erm... I'm pretty sure your previous posts show that you do care, actually. Not that it's a bad thing, just pointing it out. It's a pet peeve of mine when a guy evidently shows that a woman's looks is one of the major things that he pays attention to, but yet claims he doesn't care what they look like. 'All my friends have beautiful girls except me', 'I'll be seeing this really attractive girl...' .. One who truly doesn't care about looks, doesn't use looks as the sole adjective when describing a girl that he'd like to try his luck with.
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Girls that age wont date 20 yr olds becasue they think that i am too immature. If they got to know me they would see that i am more like a 25 yr old at heart.
Nothing wrong with being picky at all - I am very seldom attracted to a guy enough that I want to actually get involved with them.
My friends all think I'm way too fussy though - because of this, being perpetualy single is a problem but then I would rather be this way than not selective enough about who I date/sleep with.
I think many of my friends are not choosy enough with partners, alot think I'm a snob with impossibly high standards...
Nothing wrong with being picky at all - I am very seldom attracted to a guy enough that I want to actually get involved with them.
My friends all think I'm way too fussy though - because of this, being perpetualy single is a problem but then I would rather be this way than not selective enough about who I date/sleep with.
I think many of my friends are not choosy enough with partners, alot think I'm a snob with impossibly high standards...
I have a few girls that are friends and they are just like this as well. I think if i were a girl, i would even be more picky than i am now.
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