meet guy thru friend at club
talk on phone about one month - not real deep conversations
go out on a date
had good time
attraction
little physical things happen- rather innocent
talk a few times after
he calls after a while and says we should hang out soon
i say sure and ask when
he says he will call me back later in week and we will plan it
never calls
i am thinking "this is over" and cool with it actually
see him last night NYE and we dont really hang out but say whatsup

he calls today sayin he felt bad that we didnt get to talk and blah blah blah and to call him

what does this guy think or want?
i mean, if this is the way he is showing me he likes me- it aint impressive..if he doesnt like me- why they heck is he calling--- to just be friends????

last night he also thanked me for the date we went on ...random

[Tony T]

I understand what you're saying
the guy is confusing
you don't know what he wants
probably has nothing else to do
probably feels a little guilty
the fact that you can't figure him out
has you very interested
that's really great
give him a hard time
like he's giving you
don't give in to his crap so easily
ask him next time why he is calling
and what his game is
i think he's a creep
and if you talk like you write
you're a little weird yourself.

[Ally Boo]

Is this the same person who sent the email out to her cousin's friend or whatever??

this is a different guy though
i DID send the other an email though
i dont talk like i write tony- i am just trying to be concise dude

[Paul]

Hi scotch,

Originally posted by scotch
i dont talk like i write tony- i am just trying to be concise dude

Time and time again it has been demonstrated here that writing as clearly as possible in paragraph form will make your thread easier to digest and encourage more responses.

I can appreciate your desire to remain as concise as possible, however I encourage you to take the subtle criticism in this thread as a hint that it might be rubbing others the wrong way.

Proper capitalization and punctuation is always a plus.

Best wishes,
Paul

[Ally Boo]

I can't handle the 8,000 paragraph posts. I admire Clia and Tony, bc when I see a long post, I think "Ok they obviously have too many issues for me to comprehend." I also find those extremely long posts rude...but then again, I have the choice to NOT read them, and if they are THAT long, I usually wont.

I think its more polite to be to the point and I really like your posting style.

[Tolkien]

If he is anything like me, he likes you, but is Really lazy, lol.

Likes to spend time with you, but doesn't want to have to remember to call you all the time.

Might not be a good choise of b/f.

Hummm.... *I've since changed*