[Unclescam777]

I will try to be as detailed and short as possible. I am currently 18 years ago and finishing up my last year in high school. Recently my girlfriend of 2 years and me broke up due to certain issues i needed to deal with. Anyway, some counceling classes later i am able to pretty much regain her love again and am in the process of getting back together with her. I know that being so young should keep me away from such a serious relationship but please avoid that issue when thinking about this. One of the problems i really needed to work out was jealousy....i used to get so jealous if she even talked to another guy. Anyway, today she told me a horrifying fact. Right after we broke up she went out with another guy and had sex with him, completely going against all her morals about sex wih only love. So anyway i promised her that i would not blow up at her for any of this and i know i have no right to since we were broken up....but i am human, and i was just told that the girl i love more than anything gave herself away to the first man who came along, and that is making my stomach so tight right now....i feel like there is a knife in it.

So please tell me, do i have a place in getting upset over this or should i let it all go? She says that she regrets it and seems pretty sincere. Something else i'd like to know is how come females tend to give themselves away after a serious breakup? This rebound thing is well known among females, i just want to know why they are driven to this lack of morals?