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Old 25th February 2009, 1:13 PM   #1
polola303
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update... looking for again

So I finally broke things off with my live in boyfriend, we had only been living together for 5 months but he never wanted to have sex with me and then with time I started to discover his "secrets" like he was a regular weed smoker, he has some sort of porn addiction and has even used escorts. I always thought things were weird but I just thought the was suffering form depression, I tried to help him and encouraged him to go to councelling, I went myself, I really tried everything but once I fond out about the escorts I had to leave. How could he want sex form hookers and never with me??? Anyways it's been a month since I moved out, I'm pretty happy going out with friends, meeting new people, going to the gym, etc. I have plenty of activities and I do enjoy myself. But we work together so I see him everyday, and I feel so sad. I see he takes his laptop home everyday, I know it's for his porn. I know that's his date every night and on weekends too. When we broke up he promised me he would get better so we could be together, it's been a month and now he doesn't even speak to me. I sometimes give him little presents, like today I gave him a happiness keychain, nothing big. But the thing is I miss him, I love him and I wish he would get better. I am going to councelling, and for the most part I feel really happy but I still would like to share my life with him, but once he's better. I know stupid he won't get better. Anyone have any advice? has anyone been in a similar situation?
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