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Old 30th September 2002, 11:22 PM   #1
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I was supposed to go to homecoming with this kid that i really like and he never showed up i got a call from one of his friends(which i am friends with to) and they said that they just saw him and that he was on his way to get me and he never showed up so i went to this one place where i new that he would be and he made up this excuse why he didnt come and get me. So when i was leaving my one friend asked what he told me and i told him and he told me that he had lied to me and that he was here the whole time and he didnt want to go to homecoming and thats why he didnt call or show up! what should i do i am so upset but i couldnt flip out on him and i think it is bc i still like him? i even called his house tonight and he didnt call back b./c he knows that i found out the truth! what doi do i am so confused i mean i am mad and really upset but i still like him and i liked him all last year and i was told that he likes me and then he did that to mean....HELP!
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Old 1st October 2002, 12:04 AM   #2
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You still like him????? YUK! !!!!!

Why would you still like a guy who is a dud, a low class liar, and scum bag and a worthless bum??? Where is your pride and self esteem.

You shouldn't have dignified what he did by going looking for him. If you continue to have anything to do with him, he will take you for a stupid fool and walk all over you and smash you into the pavement and stomp all over you until you can't move. Why would you want to subject yourself to that?

You ought to be very happy that you have now identified one of the 378,943,225 male bxstards on planet earth. Now go find the others....

I have absolutely no pity for you if you ever speak one more word to this guy. You can do so much better for yourself. You better get strong, lady, or this love stuff will destroy you!
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Old 1st October 2002, 11:00 PM   #3
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you may like him

but it is obvious that he doesn't care at all about your feelings. rethink your feelings. it may take some time, but eventually you will emotionally flatline when it comes to him...trust me...i know. and then you will feel free.
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Old 4th October 2002, 7:24 AM   #4
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What doi do i am so confused i mean i am mad and really upset but i still like him and i liked him all last year and i was told that he likes me and then he did that to mean....HELP!
Firstly, don't get angry at him. He most likely deserves it from what has happened here, but there in no point in getting angry at him. Sure be angry and upset inside, just don't take it out on him because later you will definately regret it. I know this from experience.

Just read my post to see what i mean:
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/show...threadid=18025

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i still like him and i liked him all last year and i was told that he likes me and then he did that to mean....HELP!
I'm sure he knows you still like him and if he doesn't then he's probably very stupid.

He may have liked you, but things can change. Who knows why things changed, but the can. Perhaps you should question where you found out that he liked you from, maybe it wasn't true in the first place. I could be wrong. :-S


Goodluck.
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Old 8th October 2002, 1:33 PM   #5
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Firstly, don't get angry at him. He most likely deserves it from what has happened here, but there in no point in getting angry at him. Sure be angry and upset inside, just don't take it out on him because later you will definately regret it. I know this from experience.
Are you on drugs? Hello, if he ditched her like that he NEEDS to know he's a jackass and in my opinion, she should buy some nice pointy boots and get them aquainted with his balls.

OMG Listen to yourself!!

If you dont stand up for yourself...NO ONE WILL!

Don't be a door mat...geez.
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Old 9th October 2002, 4:58 AM   #6
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Are you on drugs? Hello, if he ditched her like that he NEEDS to know he's a jackass and in my opinion, she should buy some nice pointy boots and get them aquainted with his balls.

OMG Listen to yourself!!

If you dont stand up for yourself...NO ONE WILL!

Don't be a door mat...geez.
hehehe... i know exactly what your saying Ally... Sure go off at him if thats what you feel is right to do, but don't regret it later.

I normally only go off at ppl if they really deserve it, but sometimes i overreact when i go off and regret it later.

Maybe i should have said, sure get angry, get even. :-S

Just do what u think i right i guess.
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Old 9th October 2002, 1:06 PM   #7
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yeah

Just don't let someone take advantage of you without you letting them know what a low life they are.
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Old 12th October 2002, 2:13 PM   #8
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Thanks for all the advice I recently flipped out on him and basically made him feel like Sh*t! He got mad but he deserved it. and for the record I dont like him, and I am feeling better about everything and relized if he is going to do that then I dont need him! well thanks again!
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