LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > Familial > Family

Missing Father...


Family Parents too demanding? Sibling driving you mad? Tell us!

Old 3rd January 2009, 9:27 AM   #1
Rikku
New Member
 
Rikku's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: North America
Posts: 9
Missing Father...

I have never known my father my whole life. My mother was about 18 when she conceived and 19 when she had me. I can't type much more because I don't know that much. Here's the thing...

My mother asked me about last year if I wanted to meet him. I was speechless, she never talked about him or NOTHING my whole 18, at the time, years of my life. I hesitated and said no. I now regret doing that and would like to meet him now.

I am going to be going to school in another city and that city is apparently where my father is...but the thing is how do bring up this sensible awkward topic with my mother again to ask her about him??
Rikku is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 3rd January 2009, 9:41 AM   #2
Geishawhelk
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Verulamium, England
Posts: 6,478
Enough time has elapsed for you to have had a change of heart....
Have a word with your mother.
Ask her whether she thinks it would be a good idea, and why?

I think if you never did this, knowing you could have done, you'll regret it......
Geishawhelk is offline   Reply With Quote
 

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Is it better to have a "dead beat" father than no father at all??? Illicit Angel Parenting 8 1st October 2007 6:34 PM
Missing gf, missing friends cavapasbien Coping 1 13th September 2007 10:00 PM
Real father or step-father delnoire Parenting 6 15th September 2006 8:30 AM
What's the difference between missing companionship and missing THAT person? KittenMoon Coping 12 6th April 2006 8:33 PM
Is this missing her or possibly just missing the comfort and idea of being w/ her? dmoore Breaks and Breaking Up 2 28th August 2003 7:50 PM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 2:32 AM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2010 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.