Marriage

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I'm now at a stage where I feel I want to give to a man that has the ability to give to me in return. I want to move past the lust phase of relationships and develop a real relationship with a man. I do need him to provide for me although I will do my part. I also need him to understand and nurture what makes me me. I want to provide a home for him to come home to and add spice to his life after a long day. I want someone who will help me relax and shut out the world after a long day. I want to enjoy life with another human being. My problem is that I can't seem to develop a relationship with men who fit these qualities. I always attract and get the guys who want to be with me primarily for sex. I have been told that I am very attractive and have enjoyed sexual relationships in the past but I now want something more. Why don't guys look at me and say "She is going to be my wife." instead of "She is hot". I don't were revealing clothing or make-up. It seems like guys just see me as a body and have no interest in seeing me as a wife.

HELP