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Old 11th October 2008, 10:52 AM   #1
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IDK what to think

Ok so my girlfreind and i had been dating a couple months and things were going great but there were some problems like at the start her best friend of 3 years said he liked her and a couple of her exs asked her back . She said she had feeling for me only so i told her i trusted her. Then like 4 days ago one of the guys tryied to kiss her and of course i got mad and had a few words with him to back off. She didnt like this and said i shouldnt been saying anything she could handle it. So then i saw her yesterday and i apologized for acting how i did. Then today i get a text saying" yesterday was weird and idk if i feel the same way bout u like i use to so i think we should take a break/ but theres no one else and she still has feelings for me " idk what to do like i care bout her so much shes the best girl friend i have ever had. what should i do i want her back more than anything
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Old 11th October 2008, 12:34 PM   #2
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Act very calm and cool about it. Say "whatever you think is best for you". and thats it! Leave it alone. If she says she still wants to be "friends" - dont fall for this. Say you would rather not. Then DO NOT CONTACT HER at all! Keep your distance. TRUST ME PLEASE. If you do this, it will be the only way she wakes up and realizes she made a mistake if she does in fact care for you. Good luck
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Old 11th October 2008, 12:59 PM   #3
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I think you should just give her some space and let her work out her own feelings on her own. Give her a chance to miss you and respect her independence.
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Old 11th October 2008, 1:06 PM   #4
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She is very childish. I suggest you agree to her request and leave her alone.

From what I have seen though, if they automatically say there is no-one else, it's someone else.
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Old 11th October 2008, 4:02 PM   #5
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thanks im gonna give her the space and does it really work like the whole no contact thing ????? and i doesnt help when like 3 other guys want her and are trying to make the break up final
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