[t121212]

My girlfriend recently broke up with me after 2 and a half years for the reason that she wasn't happy. She might not have been happy because of me but it was while she was with me. I admitt that i did make my mistakes but i loved her and would do anything for her. After about a month of us being apart and me being a little phsyco about the whole because i moved my life for her, she said that there was no chance coming up because she was happy with her life now. For about the last 6 months she has been done with school and wondering what she was going to do with her life. After leaving me she decided that she is going to open her own clothing boutique. So her time is taken up with that she is getting out of bed earlier getting stuff done with her store and stuff. Not that she is going out more she just feels that she has more freedom and not somebody to think of as well.

Now there is one more problem i am not from the same state i am from pretty far away and i moved my life for her. She says there is no chance but i feel that if i move back that there will be even less of a chance for anything to happen.

Here's my question do i move back home with my family 20 hours away or stay here live with friends go on with my life and see what happens with us? ( i still really really want to be with her)

What to do?

thanks for your comments

[SoundTribe]

Forget about it man. She's gone. The only thing you can do now is start the healing process. Begging and pleading for her will only repulse her. You have to accept that she doesn't love you anymore. Its a hard pill to take, but its something that everyone goes through (minus those lucky high school sweethearts).

Time heals all wounds friend, and I know what you are going through. I am going through the same thing and it gets easier. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt anymore because it still does. But it doesn't hurt nearly as bad as the first day.

[popey]

If the only reason to stay is for her, I don't think you should stay. I'm sorry, but it really sounds like she has moved on. If she's telling you she is happy and there is no chance of you getting back together; its probably true. Live where you want to live assuming she is out of the picture. Then if she is open to maybe being just friends via email and phone, if you want that you can have it either way. You can always move back if something could happen in the future, but i don't think you should live your life counting on it. Sorry.