well i just wanted to get this off my chest. it has been almost a year of my seperation then divorce with my ex wife. it has been really hard but im finally getting use to it well unitl someone tells me something about her or something reminds me of her. for example yesterday someone told me she isnt doing so good where she is at. apperntly the ones that told her to leave me now see the mess she is in and want her to come back home and say she should have never left me. of course it makes me feel good cause now they see i was a good man for her but it makes me sad to know she is probably depressed and not making wise dicisions in her life.
i wonder if she is thinking she wants me back? but i know i would never want to be back with her i love her but i know it would never work again.
well if anyone read this and has questions let me know....
Yeah, I don't see that there is a problem here for you.
In a way it's what a lot of us would call a good result:
You are practically over her, you don't want her back, and she is now feeling that perhaps she made a mistake. All good.
well the other day i spoke to her sister that still is okay with me and she mentioned to me that her mother or my ex mother in law had a dream about me and she woke up crying... i first thought oh great now how else am i an evil person, now what did i supposedly do... but she told me that her dream was about her mom talking to me and kind of feeling bad how everything happened between me and my ex. like if she finally had a chance to vent with me. i kind of felt bad cause i never wanted to cause problems to that family but it happened.
do you guys think i should have a talk with my ex mother in law? we have only talked once and it was briefly ever since me and her daughter broke up
Why would you talk to your ex-MIL? If you don't want her back, its best to just leave them all alone. If you're feeling sad or guilty about your ex-wife, that's another thing. But talking to her mom will make her feel worse when she finds out. She may get the impression that you want her back. And then she'll have to go through more pain when you have to tell her you don't.
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it has been almost a year
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